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Who do you listen to?

Who do you listen to?






"The fool doth think he is wise, but the wise man knows himself to be a fool." - William Shakespeare


First thing is first.

There's a bunch of advice every where you turn these days.

Everywhere you go there's someone who's an expert on something and wants to give you direction and tell you what to think. 

 Be careful who you counsel with!

Am I saying taking advice is bad or wrong? Absolutely not! It is advantageous to learn and benefit from others' experience, but it must be from a credible source.  Please make sure the person offering you advice is qualified to do so. Every time you take someone's advice, essentially you "buy" their life. 

Would you hire a fat personal trainer?

What about a broke financial planner? 

Would you ask a kidless person parenting advice?

Would you get an electrician to change the transmission in you car? I'll wait..

*plays Jeopardy music*

OF COURSE YOU WOULDN'T!

These are extreme examples, but that's what MANY do. 

With that said, why would you listen to unsuccessful people about success? There's nothing an unsuccessful person can tell you about success besides how NOT to get there. Why take advice from someone more messed up than you are? It seems like that's a little crass, but it's all too common. 

In essence, I'm asking you to look for the "Fruit on the the tree."

Look at the people you're getting advice from, if they're where you want to be, take it. If they aren't'T where you want to be, don't. If you remember this one thing, remember...

There are two types of people that fail, those who listen to nobody, and those who listen to everybody.

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