Dominance is my thing.
I like to get things done & always feel more comfortable if they get done my way.
This is an issue I've been fighting with myself over for the majority of my natural born life. However, as an adult, I'm starting to learn a few things. Let me share them with you.
As of late, I've learned two very important lessons about control. Number one, you can't control other people & secondly, you can't control everything. That may sound simple to you, but for a dominant type A personality like me, it's been somewhat of a challenge.
Let's talk about controlling people, you can't. The end.
I kid, but on a serious note, you can't. You can present the most logical of solutions or situations to a person and it simply doesn't matter. They can clearly be doing something that's detrimental to everything they stand for, but that's them. Remember, it's not about what you want, it's about what they want. It's th…
I like to get things done & always feel more comfortable if they get done my way.
This is an issue I've been fighting with myself over for the majority of my natural born life. However, as an adult, I'm starting to learn a few things. Let me share them with you.
As of late, I've learned two very important lessons about control. Number one, you can't control other people & secondly, you can't control everything. That may sound simple to you, but for a dominant type A personality like me, it's been somewhat of a challenge.
Let's talk about controlling people, you can't. The end.
I kid, but on a serious note, you can't. You can present the most logical of solutions or situations to a person and it simply doesn't matter. They can clearly be doing something that's detrimental to everything they stand for, but that's them. Remember, it's not about what you want, it's about what they want. It's th…